The goal of LuvHertz.com is to help create better, stronger relationships by creating a framework where people can obtain quantified relationship and dating advice from their friends and other members worldwide
After experiencing my fare share of crappy dates and bad relationships I realized that a community needed to be created that allowed people to share quick, honest and anonymous advice with one another to help in evaluating their dating and relationship progress.
I also recognized that navigating a relationship is not always easy and is therefore not something that can easily be done on one’s own. People often need to flesh out certain details of a relationship with friends and ask for feedback and advice. We often replay a scene that has taken place in our relationship over and over again to try and make sense of it. The simple cathartic act of talking to friends about a date or relationship experience or having someone to be there as a sounding board can be invaluable. That is why I decided that the online social networking model would be the ideal venue for this advice sharing community.
LuvHertz is a brilliantly interactive and evaluative relationship and dating advice community that was created to help people to stay accountable within their relationships. By helping people to stay accountable for the types of relationships they nurture, participate in and invest in, it is my hope that LuvHertz can help people to grow to become better partners to their loved ones by learning not to take them for granted, by being grateful for their contributions as well as helping people to save themselves the time (possibly years), energy, and money that they would otherwise pour endlessly into a bad relationship.
Hindsight is 20:20
We’ve all unfortunately been there; spending months or even years in a bad or mediocre relationship, hoping that it will improve, when in reality the outcome is ultimately disastrous. In hindsight we can see all of the times, clear as day, that we should have walked away. We can now see all the opportunities we had to leave, we can see all the exit points illuminated and clearly marked and we can remember all the times that our significant other’s actions just begged us to dump him or her. But we didn’t do it, did we? Instead we waited for something so catastrophic to happen that we could no longer deny the situation we’re in and we’re forced to take action.
LuvHertz puts an end to this prolonged denial. By highlighting all of the “hindsight moments” in the present, we have the power to ensure that when we look back on our relationships and on the choices we’ve made we can be proud that we acted with self-respect and dignity.
I theorize that when we stop wasting our time on losers and stop making excuses for users we will have a lot more time available to spend with great people who have actually earned and totally deserve our love. As with any good book, you can’t get to the happy ending until you’ve read the chapters preceding it. LuvHertz highlights the key moments for you in the early chapters so you can get to the good part faster.
By seeking and obtaining relationship advice from ordinary, everyday people who have “been there” before, members of LuvHertz can benefit from Vicarious Hindsight and avoid the same relationship and dating pitfalls that ensnared these forerunners. As well, by learning from the examples of relationship role models who have successfully managed to build long and enduring, romantic relationships LuvHertz members are able to do the same and create strong lasting and loving relationships for themselves.
Why do we need LuvHertz?
So we don’t make excuses for those who don’t deserve it or give the benefit of the doubt to those who haven’t earned it!
To Recognize acts of kindness, be grateful for patience and understanding and Validate and Reciprocate affectionate and loving gestures
For those of us who have put someone on a pedestal who doesn’t quite deserve that grandeur position LuvHertz can be that much needed splash of cold water in the face that sobers us and snaps us out of the daze of infatuation we’ve found ourselves in. Or for those of us who seem to be blindly unable to recognize a great catch when he or she is right smack in front of us, LuvHertz can be the firm but loving nudge we need, providing us with a wake up call before it’s too late. No longer will we have to wait for someone to be taken from us before we realize his or her value.
LuvHertz is a play on the saying “love hurts” but its meaning is derived from the novel, yet intuitive notion that love can be measured by its frequency (measured in hertz) and evaluated according to the positivity or negativity of that energy.
Positive energy → Good vibes → High frequency → HighFreq
Negative energy → Bad vibes → Low frequency → LowFreq
Undesirable behaviors by your significant other will have the effect of making you feel miserable, therefore they are “bad vibes” and are classified as LowFreq. Loving gestures from your significant other will be pleasurable, therefore they create “good vibes” and are classified as HighFreq.